The Master is a strong man, a Dominant man. He is sure of himself, confident in his place in society. He cherishes females, revels by their presence. he is giving, caring, Loving and understanding.
When the Master takes on a submissive, he worships her, discovers her, slowly possesses her. He gently pushes her, always ready to show her that she is strong, that her limits are not what she believes them to be, that she can be taken farther. In this, the Master reveals to the submissive her own confidence, her own levels of self esteem.
As the Master learns his submissive, an understanding takes place. He senses her desires, her needs, her passions. With this new knowledge, the Master takes care of her, always giving her what she needs but not necessarily what she presumes she needs.
It is the Master’s responsibility to care for, protect and love his submissive. If she is sick, he will feed her. If she is exhausted, he will allow her to rest, If she is scared, he will confront her. If she needs affection, he will hold her. These things he does willingly, because he knows her. He understands her as no one else does. He has seen into her soul and held it in his hands. Her mind is his to read, to know. Her body is his to feel. Her heart is his to caress. She becomes his possession.
The Master does not take away her identity, but allows her to grow into her own being, her own likeness, her submission to him is not a vehicle of punishment or hatred, but one of love and development. She is given the room to come into her own, under her Master’s care, like a flower that flourished under the sun’s warmth. She radiates from his love and devotion. She becomes a rose; a beautiful being that knows she is loved and cared for.
There is the profile of a Master: strong, able, confident, loving, caring, encouraging, and gentle. “What about punishment and discipline?” you may be asking. Punishment is handed out lovingly yet firmly. The Master is not angry, there is no place for anger with punishment. The Master is teaching. Punishment and discipline need not be physical, it can be psychological. It is not done out of harshness or hostility, it is done out of love and forgiveness.
I believe a Master does not mold a sub into what he feels she should be, but allows her the freedom to live and grow under his loving care. She becomes the woman she has always been, deep within her spirit. He takes her gift of submission seriously, knowing that it is not given freely or lightly. He always remembers how precious the gift is, how rare it is, how beautiful it is. For she has given him something that cannot be taken for granted; she has given him the gift of her soul.
The submissive woman, firm in her femininity. She offers herself to her Master freely, of her own choosing. She gives the gift of her submission in exchange for his protection, care and love. She is obedient because she chooses to be, not because she is forced to be. Her first priority is pleasing her Master. She will do whatever he asks in order to meet his desires.
She comes to him a woman, but unsure of her place. With his guidance, she quickly learns what is expected of her. With this learning, she begins to give more of herself, of her soul, until she has given her all to her Master. There is no power given up, no control taken away. She gives what she wants to give and her Master holds the gift in his heart, always sharing, always giving back what she needs. An immense measure of trust is built between the two: she must trust her Master completely in order to give him so much of herself and the Master must trust his submissive in order for him to accept it.
With him, she will grow emotionally and spiritually into her soul. She will become what she is deep within, and learn to love freely and unconditionally. The Master also becomes the man he feels within his soul and the two embark on a journey that will take them out of the realms and limits of society and into the timeless dimensions of the universe.
Written by myTilTedHaℓσ aka Seven Stars